feat(nomos): chat working-visibility, message queue, generation-aware timeline

Make background/long/desynced turns visible and queueable, fixing the four
symptoms that survived the v0.15.0 chat reliability pass.

F1 - status-driven working signal (workspace.ts taskWorking/currentWorking =
streaming OR status in {planning,executing}). Drives the chat trace, indicator,
and activity spinner so a turn with no live stream (background resume, a dropped
SSE, an idle-close mid long turn) still looks alive.

F2 - operator messages sent during an in-flight turn are now QUEUED and
auto-run when the gate frees, replacing the "still finishing a previous step...
send it again" rejection. Per-session in-memory FIFO (messagequeue.go, capped at
20) drained one-at-a-time under the turn gate; a `queued` SSE event drives a
"Queued" hint. drainQueued releases via a per-iteration deferred closure so a
runChatTurn panic can't deadlock the session's gate.

F3 - SSE keepalive (12s `:keepalive` comment) in handleChat so 20-40s
inter-iteration gaps no longer trip a proxy/browser idle close (the desync root
cause). All SSE writes serialized through one mutex.

F4 - generation-aware activity timeline (only the last propose_plan renders;
superseded ones collapse to one "Earlier plan revised" marker; step-attribution
follows only the current generation) + debounced plan refetch on lifecycle
events so a missed plan.proposed self-heals.

Verified against the last session (23da10db: 6m33s turn, operator "status"
deferred at 19:48:05). go test ./cmd/nomos/ green (new messagequeue tests);
web vitest 72/72 (new F4 generation tests); vite build clean.

VERSION: 0.16.0 -> 0.17.0

plans/index.md

@@ -23,6 +23,7 @@ went sideways, open an investigation.
 | 2026-07-20 | [Mascot physics/window-interaction audit](2026-07-20-mascot-physics-audit.md) | P0–P2 implemented; P3 ("cool stuff") ideas open |
 | 2026-07-21 | [Frontend as OS + Apps — architecture audit & refactor](2026-07-21-frontend-os-apps-architecture.md) | Planned — Phase 1 ready |
 | 2026-08-03 | [Nomos chat: reliability & predictability audit](2026-08-03-nomos-chat-reliability-and-ux-audit.md) | In Progress — F1–F7 shipped in v0.15.0; F8 + follow-ups open |
+| 2026-08-03 | [Nomos chat: working-visibility, message queue, generation-aware timeline](2026-08-03-nomos-chat-working-visibility.md) | Implemented in v0.17.0 — F1–F4 shipped; model-efficiency + F8 follow-ups open |
 
 ## Done