N0: rename Hermes → Nomos (standalone commit)

Problem: "Hermes" collides with Nous Researchs unrelated product;
  unclear identity for the resident agent.

  Change: Rename the live service identity across 39 files:
  - cmd/hermes/ → cmd/nomos/ (binary, env vars NOMOS_*)
  - internal/config/ server.go (NomosAgentSlug, nomosAgentID)
  - compose/hermes/ → compose/nomos/ (Dockerfile, service name)
  - hermes/ → nomos/ (SOUL.md, config.yaml, skills/)
  - .agents/HERMES.md → NOMOS.md (persona)
  - tools/setup-hermes-soul.sh → setup-nomos-soul.sh
  - seeds/inventory.yaml (agent:hermes → agent:nomos)
  - migrations/014_rename_agent_hermes_to_nomos.up.sql
  - Caddy vhost hermes.hubris.network → nomos.hubris.network
  - All referencing docs, scripts, ADR notes

  History preserved: archive/, plans/done/, ADRs not rewritten.
  Matrix @hermes notifier account and Legacy bin/hermes on LXC 129
  intentionally untouched (out of scope).

  Risk: N0 is identity-only rename; zero behavioral changes.
  Verification: go build ./... passes; docker compose --profile full
  resolves nomos service; grep -ri hermes (excluding archive/plans)
  returns only intentional refs (LLM model name, Matrix user).

.agents/shared/caveman.md

@@ -30,4 +30,4 @@ Code/commits/PRs: write normal. "stop caveman" or "normal mode": revert. Level p
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 Source: https://github.com/JuliusBrussee/caveman
-Copy to `~/.hermes/skills/` for Hermes Agent, or `~/.claude/projects/<name>/SKILL.md` for Claude Code.
+Copy to `~/.nomos/skills/` for Nomos agent, or `~/.claude/projects/<name>/SKILL.md` for Claude Code.