v0.18.0: MCP entity-graph CRUD, lifecycle validation, curl -o /dev/null fix

- create_entity, set_entity_state, end_relationship MCP tools
- update_entity_attributes now triggers check derivation via EnsureEntityChecks
- shared db.EnsureEntityChecks + db.ValidateTransition hooks (HTTP + MCP parity)
- curl -o /dev/null now classified read_only (was config_mutation)
- db.ErrTransitionInvalid sentinel for HTTP error-type accuracy
- SOUL.md: capability escalation, self-grounding, exploration budget rules
- Runbook: oikos check lifecycle for agent self-knowledge

internal/db/sqlcgen/ontology.sql.go

@@ -99,7 +99,7 @@ func (q *Queries) ListLifecycleDefs(ctx context.Context) ([]LifecycleDef, error)
 }
 
 const listRelationshipTypes = `-- name: ListRelationshipTypes :many
-SELECT name, inverse, source_type, target_type, cardinality, description, created_at FROM relationship_types ORDER BY name
+SELECT name, inverse, source_type, target_type, cardinality, description, created_at, blast_direction FROM relationship_types ORDER BY name
 `
 
 func (q *Queries) ListRelationshipTypes(ctx context.Context) ([]RelationshipType, error) {
@@ -119,6 +119,7 @@ func (q *Queries) ListRelationshipTypes(ctx context.Context) ([]RelationshipType
 			&i.Cardinality,
 			&i.Description,
 			&i.CreatedAt,
+			&i.BlastDirection,
 		); err != nil {
 			return nil, err
 		}